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Back Page Notes – The 3rd Alternative by Stephen Covey

Every month I try and read 2-3 books with a focus on reading books that are on the current or former military reading lists and are focused in on leadership, professional development, and philosophy. The problem is five or six months down the line I’d often forget what book I read and also forget the main points from the book. Writing notes in the margin worked for a while but it was quite a pain to go through all my books and look for notes. Writing notes on the back page worked great but if I gave the book away I lost the notes. I finally started writing all my notes in a mole skin journal, snapping a picture and sharing on DOD Reads. If you would like to share your own notes let me know below.

“maybe we can come up with a better solution than either of us has in mind, care to try?

Covey


The Third Alternative – Stephen Covey

“maybe we can come up with a better solution than either of us has in mind, care to try?

Scarcity Mind Set: There are only two alternatives and one is wrong.

Abundance Mind Set: There are infinite rewarding exciting and creative alternatives that we have not thought of yet.

One of our most important powers is the power to choose the sense which we view reality.

Four Steps to Synergy

  1. Realize that a 3rd alternative exists
  2. Have an empathic understanding of the others situation
  3. Ask “what would better look like” and “do you want to go for better”
  4. We have reached synergy when excitement fills the room

Build trust by:

  • Making and keeping commitments to yourself and others
  • Talk straight and confront reality
  • Listen first and get better

(Strategy X Execution)*Trust = Results


If you are a reader or author and have high quality “back page notes” from your personal reading list or military reading list that you would like published on DODReads.com please contact me below. I will be happy to include your notes, a short bio and picture and links to your website or socials. Feel free to share the picture or writeup; if you do share please provide links back to DODReads.com.

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